昨天看了这部电影的试映会。剧情主要诉说女主角在恋情结束后，患上了妄想症，从而引发了 ... ... 想知道结局，自己去看吧！
电影结束后，让我想起曾经一度接过一位听众的email和传真。发现她似乎也可能患上了这个病症。
因为在email和 fax当中，她写了很多虚构的事情。
除了她自己，内容对他人而言根本是一派胡言！
根据电影的旁述，最有可能患上妄想症的人主要是因为在情感上遇到了挫折，无法得到朋友或家人的关心，从而患病。
如果你发现周围的朋友或家人，陷入情绪低潮，千万别嫌烦而疏远他们。因为这个时候，他们最需要你的开解和鼓励。
22 comments:
Since you sound like a very caring person so how you handle that listener who email and fax you whom you think has 妄想症？？ Do you guy make fun of that listener treating her as someone crazy for you or try to help her coz i heard another guy dj mention that got 1 crazy fan very crazy for you, the way he described sound more like mocking at that listener!! I feel sad for that DJ's mentality and EQ and not respecting their listeners' feelings. Feel sad too when listeners ardent support for their dj can be mocked as craziness!!! Very doubtful how caring and sincere you guy actually are compare to the way your sound on air???????? I think media world people high time to learn from andy Lau De Hua how he respects and loves his ardent fans!!! Those ardent fans' devotion are thousand times more crazy than the fans here. Think about it
Hi Doubtful,
I have tried using different ways to explaIn and help her. However things didn't move on. I think the best pple who can help her are her family members and friends who knows her better.
As for your comments about DJ's attitude towards their supporters, I think every person has their own way of handling. There is no right or wrong way I suppose. Furthermore, every listeners are different, so are their expectations and needs?
Thanks for you feedback. Do keep them coming.
Cheers!
:)
Tks. I just feel sad whenever I hear DJs making a big fuss or mocking at listeners' feelings for them. Guess that sort of feelings are like what you guys feel for your own idols...no big fuss right? Listeners are also human beings, need to be respected too. I'm glad you take the trouble to respond. All the best for your new designation and come on air whenever you can. Cheerio!
HI, I AGREE. THINK DJS ALSO MUST LEARN HOW TO RESPECT LISTENERS' FEELINGS FOR THEM THOUGH SOMETIMES SOME LISTENERS MAY APPEAR REALLY HUA CHI! HAAAAA...
BUT I WON'T RESPECT A DJ IF HE MAKES USE OF ARDENT FANS' FEELINGS FOR HIM TO BOAST HOW POPULAR AND WELL-LIKED HE IS ON AIR OR ELSEWHERE AND WORST IF HE RIDICULES THE LISTENERS' FEELINGS FOR HIM.
IT MAY APPEAR TO SOME IGNORANT FELLOW THINKING THE DJ IS VERY WELL-LIKED AND POPULAR. BUT TO ME, I WILL THINK THAT DJ IS VERY BOASTFUL, IMMATURE AND ALSO VERY SELF-CENTERED. SOMETIMES ALWAYS HEAR CERTAIN DJ LIKES TO PLAY ON AIR LISTENERS' CONVERSATION WITH HIM ABOUT HOW THEY LIKE AND ADMIRE HIM AND WITHOUT HIM ON AIR, THEY RATHER TURN OFF THE RADIO, MAYBE THAT DJ IS TRYING TO BOAST AND TELL THE WHOLE WORLD HOW WELL-LIKED HE IS BUT I THINK IT'S VERY SELF-CENTERED COZ LOTS OF GOOD DJS AROUND AND PEOPLE DON'T HAVE TO PLAY SUCH CONVERSATIONS ON AIR REPEATEDLY TO SHOW OFF. JUST SOMETHING TO SHARE.
DJs are humans.Listeners are normal people and normal people should have their own frens, where they talk about their problems.
DJs can give advise only from listeners conversation, but it will never match the depth and professional advise from the shrink Yes, we can be 亲切，can lend a ear to listen to your problems but, you should talk to your friends or professionals if you need more attention and care.
It's perfectly fine to be a fan, but when it grows into an obsession and then morphs into a psychological problem (like hallucinating and sending untrue / nonsensical emails to harass the DJ on every other day, even when the DJ had tried to resolve the matter through all peaceful methods that were feasible) then it's not about being "ardent" anymore.
What would you do, if you were being harassed by someone with a fluctuating sanity level? Are you going to face this deadly infatuation as calmly as you think you should? Now that's your turn to think about it. If people do not empathize with what the DJs are going through, what right do they have to say that DJs should empathize with them?
If only the entertainment industry is as simple as those outside the circle see it to be. If only it is.
Sigh. I emphasize with the DJ when he felt 'harrassed'. I also emphasize with the listener when ardent becomes obsession. It's tormenting to both!!!
Human's emotion once loses control becomes risky and that's the reason why tragedy happens! Guess nobody wants that to happen. We can't say who's right or who's wrong coz for onlooker it's easy to say anything but if we put ourselve in another shoe, probably we'll be lost and in dilemma too.
Entertainment industry is never simple. Infact, it's most complicating.
戏如人生，人生如戏，真真假假，是是非非，如何说清？要进入这一行，要面对的所有问题，心理上真的要有心理准备。能够克服所有问题的，又能适应这个圈子的才真的叫人敬佩，因为，谈何容易.
喜欢和崇拜偶像是没错的。艺人本身如果因此而沾沾自喜，甚至到处炫耀的话，那是不成熟的想法。
同样的，如果听众对一位艺人的喜爱到了疯狂、无法自拔的地步，把自己活在自己虚构的世界里，而且还对艺人的生活造成一定程度的骚扰， 这是不健康的喜欢。不能用一般的理性来判断对错。
你能够接受一个很爱慕你的邻居对你纠缠不清，甚至干扰到你的日常生活吗？
你能够接受你的朋友对你作出虚构的批评吗？或者是你的同事对你无理的批判？
更何况是一位对你来说还挺陌生的人。
没有对或错， 只要有分寸。
我想，对非一般的事件，有些时候还真的必须要用非一般的处理方式去解决问题，无非是不希望事情的发展会继续的恶化而到了无法挽回的时候，才来追究和后悔当初的不果断。
Harrassment is everywhere not just for people from media world. Can be very tormenting.
But sometimes 1 hand can't clap too, both parties also must bear some responsiblity. I listen attentively to all DJ's programe and I sometimes also can feel some DJs have misled many listeners with their own style of so-called friendliness. Some even like to flirt with the listeners, sorry no offence for all the DJs to read these coz we are now analysising problems. This is dangerous as it can lead to the other party getting more and more fascinated and becomes an obsession.
I like DJs who are matured and very rational knowing where to draw a line.
AIYOOO.DUN MENTION PEOPLE NAME LAH, VERY THE SENSITIVE COZ EVERY DJ GOT THEIR LOYAL FANS WAIT FIGHT HOR..PEACE & HARMONY! PEACE & HARMONY! AMEN
Wow...
A simple comment can trigger so many interactive comments.
Nothing is right...nor wrong...
Just don't take things too personal...Thats all =)
Lets see...Hmm...
When A speaks and meant 1 thing, B might not take in and see things frm the perspective of A.
Whats irony is...
C, D & E would also perceive things differently.
What I wanna put across is all of us could have heard and took in opinions of issues raised on air differently.
And yes...its most probably different from the meaning a DJ is trying to convey. Just like any B,C,D & E would.
We're all humans...
Yes..If u've forgotten, the DJs are also humans...
Unless you see them as someone different from you....Without eyes, nose or ears?
HaHa....Impossible right?
Try to see things from a different perspective...
I've nothing more to say.
Didn't know you actually have a blog leiz GX.
Dolly 讲的话，我也有同感。一个亲切的广播员会赢得听众的爱戴。无论如何请大家永远支持972, 不要为了不喜欢某个dj而转台。（因为转来转去很麻烦):-)
Eileen
I am very upset that some people are harsh to DJs, even off their duty timing.
Bi Yu is someone i respect a lot and she is so nice to us all. She helps us, buys food and present for us. She gives unconditionally. She stays till very late to do her programme. She even gives out her own VCDs for present to listeners.
Sometimes we need time and space to do our things and be ourselves and you would never imagine how taxing sometimes our job can be. If we have to please every listener every minute in our life, will eventually drive us crazy.
We'll try to do our best but just in case, sometimes we are not good enough, please give us some space and also understanding. We are also humans. Normal humans. Really..
Ian, 惨了！惨了！your blog title 贤言贤语变成闲言闲语了。。。哈哈哈。。。
Dolly:
What's the whole point of leaving a comment on someone's blog that you don't like him/her? Does making others upset make you feel any better, my dear sadist?
Can't we be a little bit more tolerant and give others the benefit of the doubt, especially when we don't know them well enough to judge clearly?
Just because someone didn't sound very friendly over the phone, it doesn't mean the person is a nasty person. And that definitely doesn't deserve a 'hate' tag either.
得绕人处且饶人吧。。在责备他人之前不妨先想想自己又付出了多少。己所不欲，勿施于人的道理应该不会太难懂吧？
‘贤言贤语‘生意越来越好了，可喜可贺啊~
蓉 2。。
Hi,
没想到一个posting竟然引起了那么多人的热烈讨论。
成立部落格的目的，纯粹希望能够提供听众朋友另一个交流的平台。为了避免不愉快的事件发生，身为主人的我，看来必须设立一些“准则”了。
1。任何有建设性的意见，无任欢迎。
2。保持客观的态度进行讨论。
3。严禁任何人身攻击的言论。
希望大家能够遵守以上的“条例”，和睦相处啦！
谢了！
:) smile
To dolly:
I don't think it's fair to point your fingers at a certain djs just because of one experience that puts you off. Djs are human too, they too have their own stress, frustration and ways of handling things around them. Furthermore, just like u and i, they cannot please everyone.
And, no public figure would wanna risk their image by not being sincere off-air or tv. What if B is overly friendly, you'll say she's fake?
Cmon, give her a break and everyone else. We are all humans at the end of the day. I applaud her for being herself, showing the sides of being a human. Furthermore, it's just a phone call, were u expecting something too much from it?
No hard feelings, just my 2 cents ;)
I m extremely new to 972 and I listen in jus to support a friend and hope he is doing well and enjoying his work at the station - I jus wana say that we all have our really shitty days and lousy moods so let's imagine that the Djs too are doing their job the best they can, like you and me. Everyday. So let's not be too harsh. Unless you NEVER ever had your down days, then let's just be more forgiving and be more encouraging :)
Kevin : jia you!
Ian : hi hi ...
JOE
Hi all,
Let's put this issue to a stop and move on hur? :)
Cheers!
in order to do tat..u hafta post post and post so tat dis thread will go fall down to e bottom~
Rong 2 ...
I just read a book about Marilyn Monroe (玛丽莲梦露), seems like she also has this mental illness.
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