tke for example, im separated from my husband becos of us living in diff contries, bt i have become very close to my mum, my 3 brothers n their family. so there is loss bt gain also.
of course how i lead my life i have to be careful. it is up to me to do the best for myself, by my will. i have to have a strong will to do good thing for myself.
i think there is always a desire in each 1 of us to attract some ppl tt cross our path. if we are not careful with this kind of desire, we are very likely to hurt our partner and finally loose him or her.
anyway i refuse to be a third party or have a third party if ever im going to have a serious relationship. Ian, i know u are very popular in your office. im not tking any chances.
when ppl think of love, it is a simple matter. but the fact is its not. the characters, the family background, the social background, the religious background, the educational lvls, all these are to be considered.
when 1 is busy time passes very quickly. for some parents , they were so into bringing up their children tt they never even notice their children have become grown up.
there tend to be some difficulties wherever we work. i can understand for i had my problems also when i worked. no matter where we go it is a fact. so normally i will advised ppl to stay where they are for tts the place where they are more familiar with.
i think as a superior, to be fair to your subordinates is a very important factor. of course it is very hard to do until perfection but try your best lor.
Constance, can u look at yrself at yr mirror for yr own reflection whether r u in wrong in the 1st place to talk so many nonsense at Ian's & Jeff's Blog to attrack their DJ pride n manager n nearly tarnish reputation unconscious by our famous Constance?
lately i notice 1 artist/comedian. he likes to tell jokes. but i find his jokes have a lot of factors tt aim to degrade ppl, whether individual, friends, colleages, or a grp of ppl all cant escape his sarcasm. i hope this part of his job will not affect his career on the whole.
frankly speaking, i know i will not be able to handly de. i know myself pretty well. i dont know when i stop this blog , what effect will it have on me. im not sure whether should i stop. actually i should not have dragged for so long.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 400 of 1725 Newer› Newest»tt means i dont want any serious relationship lor.
i tke a break liao.
i consider myself efficient, within 1 hr i cook eat bathe do facial hair not dry yet too bad
u know, i suddenly thought tt my husband gains much stayed married to me. for he can tell his girlfriend oh im married. haha
talk abt gain and loss. there is no place to draw a line. sometimes it takes a period of time to really know if u have truly gained.
tke for example, im separated from my husband becos of us living in diff contries, bt i have become very close to my mum, my 3 brothers n their family. so there is loss bt gain also.
and of course u have heard of how a man strikes lottery bt ends up with broken home.
in other words, bad thing may not be tt bad and good thing may not be tt good lor.
i feel family members are very important in our life.
parents especially, they have spent whole life to bring us up. if we can do something to make them happy, i feel it is our blessings.
my brothers have been very generous with me tts why i can lead such a relaxed life.
future is always a mystery. u never know what will befall us.
either 1 way or another, my husband back to me or not. i leave it to God for He alone knows what is the best for me.
so for me things are very easy. for all things left in God's hand. there is nothing for me to be worried abt.
of course how i lead my life i have to be careful. it is up to me to do the best for myself, by my will. i have to have a strong will to do good thing for myself.
i think there is always a desire in each 1 of us to attract some ppl tt cross our path. if we are not careful with this kind of desire, we are very likely to hurt our partner and finally loose him or her.
when your girlfriend says she is not the jealous type, its best u dont tke her words as the truth.
as my future is uncertain, im kind of in waiting, so i cant give any promise to any 1 in relationship to me also.
if some1 doesnt mind to wait then i have nothing to say.
im not the only 1 around. no one is indispensable.
i will not commit myself in anyway de.
there are many beautiful ladies around le.
i charge HP.
this song very sad le.
bt the melody very nice
i think i will help u break record of highest blog comments of all radio stations.
wa u all still in tt story ah. history already le.
talk abt man needs woman more or woman needs man more, what do u think?
according to a friend of mine said: man cant live without woman. haha
so there are more lonely men around than women.
when i look at my friends and relatives, it seems true. the male relative will remarry. bt not the female friend or relative remarry.
think i better clarify: i never met Jeff before.
i think u all better dont imagine too much abt Jeff and me. not so serious as u all think.
i dont understand this song leh
i treat u as keeper of my diary. hope this diary is of help to u in some way. if talk abt love, things will be very complicated.
Ian, good morning. im still your blog girlfriend.
i will give u encouragement and support when u need.
but of course i still hope to have freedom to do my own things.
i may not at all time here but my heart will be here.
i do feel like giving u a hug if u feel very lousy.
i think there is a great diff between love and attraction.
attraction is like u being dazzled by someone very pretty or handsome. normally this is very shortlived.
there are many types of love also. some with very good foundation and can stand test. some are very shallow, nothing much actually.
my time for crazy things is over le.
i think basically i dont believe in love on the blog. it may be real bt it may not be also.
why should i tke the risk, rite?
i think whoever wants to date me on the blog, very difficult de. its not fair to yourself also for u have not seen me.
if we act on the blog, then cant get out of the acting leh?
there will always be a third party somewhere. i think i have enough of tt liao.
i realize whichever man i love, his value will suddenly rise and attract alot of girls and women.
actually i want to advise u not to give too much love to someone or else she may turn round to hurt u.
loving in love is actually very tiring.
u will always be guessing she loves u more or someone else more.
especially is she is insensitive abt being careful to protect the feelings of her loved one, u will be full of hurts at all times. not worth it la.
sry some of the words above are wrongly used.
some ppl love only themselves, it is very hard to love this kind of ppl. u might as well go and knock your head against the wall.
the sad thing is im also something like the kind of person i described above. very hard to love me de.
anyway i refuse to be a third party or have a third party if ever im going to have a serious relationship. Ian, i know u are very popular in your office. im not tking any chances.
just back from church. feel like have to report for duty. funny.
just now i make a wish. im going to polish up my spoken and written chinese. especially han yu pin yin.
if there is a will, there is a road, i believe in this saying.
frankly speaking i dont find love between man and woman tt important. there are many things in life we can do to keep ourselves more than occupied.
for those man and woman believe deeply in love, by all means, go ahead. this is a free world.
1 day la, maybe i may also fall in love, who knows?
when ppl think of love, it is a simple matter. but the fact is its not. the characters, the family background, the social background, the religious background, the educational lvls, all these are to be considered.
if it is so simple and have love will do, then why we have so many couple want to be divorced?
so be careful when we promote love, dont overdo without bringing to ppl's awareness of their suitability.
unless u are promoting 1 nite stand tt is at the disadvantage of the lady.
then u talk so nice abt love then there should not be hurt to either party le.
sry horh i dont go for 1 nite stand.
sry to disappoint.
nothing la. just trying to brush up my han yu pin yin.
wa im using a lot of time here le.
when u dont need me around kindly say goodbye to me. or later i will have to say goodbye to u to go do something liao.
i realize if u love a person too much she is surely to hang u in the air. so u know what to do la huh.
i think for a lady same rule applies, if she loves a man too much, he will surely go n pour love on other lady.
tts why some sly lady will play with a man's feeling and get to twist him around her finger.
im really beginning to treat u as my diary book. i think i have to respect your feelings also.
im not expecting anything from u. just hope im given enough time to do my own private things.
Ian u fantastic leh. off also can get me here working for u.
u really know how to make ppl work horh. even me a non-employee.
i think as a successful manager u have to be like tt la.
but another short while i really got to tke a break liao. kindly excuse me.
ya, continue our lovestory later, need a rest badly.
sry, give me another hour.
good evening, Ian. have not time to comb hair yet.
i never realize actually im quite a busy lady.
anyway i dont mind being busy. just in case 1 day i have to go back to work i will not feel not able to cope.
to have ppl to be busy abt is actually a great blessing.
when 1 is busy time passes very quickly. for some parents , they were so into bringing up their children tt they never even notice their children have become grown up.
nothing confirmed is the best for most things.
if everything is arranged and definite, how boring.
sigh, lost 1 side of my ear stud.
Ian, want to split or not. if not 1 day we will drive each other real mad. for we are both the very stubborn type.
im really feeling im doing something quite meaningless. like u all say talking to myself.
i think i have enough la.
good morning Ian, this mornining your DJ's topics very interesting
abit lopsided though kind of prejudiced against ladies.
to me it is ok, bt i hope others find the topics ok.
i also think it is best not to be prejudiced the not so pretty ladies.
and what old and ugly ladies la if can cut try to cut.
even man will not want to be thought of as old and ugly, what more for ladies.
certain facts sometimes it is best not to say to show some courtesy.
as DJ u attack an individual at the expense of the whole public is very unwise.
the u above refers to some DJ not Ian.
huh, same topic???
if i dont care, i quit liao.
i think sometimes we are prone to imagine things. i also the same la.
there tend to be some difficulties wherever we work. i can understand for i had my problems also when i worked. no matter where we go it is a fact. so normally i will advised ppl to stay where they are for tts the place where they are more familiar with.
i think as a superior, to be fair to your subordinates is a very important factor. of course it is very hard to do until perfection but try your best lor.
try avoid having a favourite in the office. 1 thing its bad for u and it is bad for tt staff also.
appreciate u have a proper christmas song
Hi Constance.
Who r u n so great abt u?
Constance, can u look at yrself at yr mirror for yr own reflection whether r u in wrong in the 1st place to talk so many nonsense at Ian's & Jeff's Blog to attrack their DJ pride n manager n nearly tarnish reputation unconscious by our famous Constance?
fm Love 97.2FM Fan
i care for u la.
in reply to the anonymous: i not bad looking le.
hi, anonymous, want meet me so i can prove myself?
anonymous, if u want to meet me , hunt for my address somewhere in the blog then write to me lor. i will like to make friend with u.
sry Ian i have to use your blog to communicate with the anonymous.
dear anonymous, im afraid some of your English i dont quite understand. can be clearer in expressing what u want me to know?
now i become very curious abt tt anonymous. i wonder what she is up to?
hi there, talk le, anonymous.
i dont quite know how to react leh.
its just tt i dont wish to fall in love. tts all.
Ian, i respect u as u are. and i think u are marvellous. just tt at the moment i dont intend to be involved with any1.
i like your new advertisement also. actually u have a very good voice.
jianrong tt bad looking meh?
anyway just a joke a guess.
did i say im going anywhere?
im sure u have many things to do and not just thinking of love.
i think no 1 is indispensable lor.
im ordinary la
if u r in my shoes, u will know how i feel.
i learnt from experience and try not to commit same mistake twice.
love on blog is very superficial. i suggest u find someone more realistic to love.
haha, no choice ah?
then i wish u good luck.
hope u dont get torn to pieces, haha
it is not tt my heart made of steel, only tt i see more problems ahead tts y i dont want to get involved.
hugging is healthy bt i will not go beyond tt lor.
sometimes things tke a while to change.
if everything is instant tt will be very nice.
wa think of everything instant make me feel very excited. image u have a baby n next day he is a grown up hahhah
lately i notice 1 artist/comedian. he likes to tell jokes. but i find his jokes have a lot of factors tt aim to degrade ppl, whether individual, friends, colleages, or a grp of ppl all cant escape his sarcasm. i hope this part of his job will not affect his career on the whole.
i think he has some hangup cant resolved.
maybe he sees too many tall beautiful ladies all beyond his reach. frustrated.
but should not be angry with others le.
who likes to be made of a victim of someone else's hangup.
truly appreciate your love.
i hope for a better tomorrow.
to make thing simple for myself, if my husband doesnt come back to me, i shall live by myself.
i thought i made my stand quite clear.
i still remember the marriage vow i made.
dont have to worry for me de. my life is simple, peaceful and nice. nothing much to tell u le.
eh, i thought u have targets liao.
whatever hurts, emotional hurt, physical hurt, n others all will pass de. no problem.
ya, able to like the ppl ard u is a great blessing in itself.
in life, 1 important thing to learn to have is patience, trust me.
want to remind me of Jeff?
told u all history so many times liao. dont nag le.
the song very deep le i kantang dont understand.
i dont seem to be able to think of a better choice.
i other words, i prefer to remain as im.
it doesnt really matter whether he comes back or not.
in fact i half hope he doesnt for life is easier on my own.
it is not easy to take care of ppl. for guys they may not known. but for ladies they sure known the kind of responsibility to commit to.
just marketing n cooking is already a lot of work. havent thought of cleaning up the hse.
sry im not being romantic. i think romance is beyond me already.
1 thing i want to avoid is to do wrong thing.
give me a good reason y i must tke risk.
im so comfortable now y must i tke risk?
ppl in relationship have expectations. sometimes they dont talk abt it, n lead to many problems. tts reality. to miss a friend is nice though.
i have failed my husband for i didnt stick by him in east malaysia.
in next relationship, i will expect to fail in some way again. for i just want to be myself. i cant be some1's another half.
a lot of sacrifice to make i expect when im in relationship with some1, n i think im now not ready for tt king of responsibilty
when my mum is gone, i might change my mind, tt im not sure.
i think the best is to be satisfied with what we have now. rather than hoping for fastastic thing to happen to us soon.
im sure u have family members who love u much.
i do care for u but not ready to tke u on as responsibility.
im sure u have many friends. dont kid me la.
haha tt song not suitable to describe your condition. hahha
frankly speaking, i know i will not be able to handly de. i know myself pretty well. i dont know when i stop this blog , what effect will it have on me. im not sure whether should i stop. actually i should not have dragged for so long.
when i find everything peaceful i will decide stop coming in.
u all very energetic horh.
i very sian.
continue tomorrow la.
thought i will say somthing. it is better tt when jokes are told, let there be less sarcasm, and putting down of ppl.
my above comment is meant for the morning session.
good morning Ian
hope your day is bright and happy
last nite i was tired but have recovered.
good things dont just happen overnite
i think in everything there must be a bit of patience, abit of waiting
things tt come fast fly away also very fast.
what is past is past,but some ppl have very long memory.
i will support u de.
emotionally, and job wise.
sometimes a teacher is not doing rite, his student is certainly going to do wrong.
step by step to everlasting
i thought i heard another advert of yours. sound quite sexy it seems.
when talk abt man women relationship all seem so excited. hahhaa
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